Getting Started

Creating your divorce starter kit can help you navigate the divorce process more smoothly.Below you will find a list of things you will need to start doing and/or collecting.  To support you,  we have created a cultivated list of professionals from the legal, financial, mental health and real estate fields who are dedicated to your success.  Simply click here to schedule an appointment with one of our team members to find a great professional for your situation.  

Here are some essential items and information you’ll want to start to look for;:

  • Legal Information:
      • A list of local family law attorneys or legal aid resources. 
      • Information on divorce laws in your jurisdiction.
      • Copies of relevant legal forms for filing (if available).
  • Financial Documents:
      • Copies of tax returns for the past few years.
      • Bank statements for joint and individual accounts.
      • Documentation of assets and liabilities (real estate, investments, debts).
      • Information on income sources for both spouses.
  • Personal Identification:
      • Copies of identification documents (driver’s license, passport, Social Security card).
      • Copies of your spouse’s identification documents.
  • Health Insurance Information:
      • Details about current health insurance coverage for both spouses.
      • Information on how health insurance may change post-divorce.
  • Property Information:
      • Inventory of joint and individual property.
      • Documentation of major assets such as the family home, cars, etc.
      • Any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements, if applicable.
  • Child Custody and Support:
      • Information on child custody laws in your jurisdiction.
      • Proposed parenting plan or custody arrangement.
      • Documentation related to child support calculations.
  • Communication Log:
      • A notebook for keeping track of communication with your spouse.
      • Record dates, times, and topics discussed.
  • Expense Tracking:
      • Create a system for tracking personal and joint expenses during the divorce process.
  • Therapist/Counselor Contacts:
      • Contact information for therapists or counselors for emotional support.
  • Support Network:
      • Contact information for friends, family, or support groups who can provide emotional support.
  • Emergency Contacts:
      • Emergency contact information for yourself and your children.
  • Future Planning:
      • Information on changing your last name (if applicable).
      • Guidance on updating your will and other legal documents.
  • Technology and Social Media:
      • Consider changing passwords and securing personal accounts.
      • Be mindful of social media usage during the divorce process.
  • Court Information:
    • Details on the local family court, including location, hours, and contact information.

Remember, it’s important as you move through a divorce to consult with a divorce professional to get personalized advice based on your specific situation. We here at Divorce Right have a cultivated list of professionals that we know, like and trust,  that we can introduce you to.  Simply click here to schedule  a call with one of our professionals who can help you put together your team.